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Tips To Look After Your Husband

Taking care of the home is not the job of the wife alone. But it is well-known and accepted fact that wives do it better, especially when they have to look after husband and kids.

Many husbands have tried to complement their wives’ efforts at home and anytime they do, the wives find it sexy and reliving, at least they don’t have to do all the chores.

On weekends, working together could be the sweet and bonding time for families especially when both couples have their week stuck in our common 8-5 jobs.

However, wives, who are the best managers at home, having some tips handy could be what would keep the marriage going. Not because you have to do most to get the marriage to work, but your crucial role would be valuable.

Here are some tips to look after your husband. This might be from the old stock but could still be beneficial especially if you want to spice up your marriage and him feel at home.

Have dinner ready

Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal on time. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself

Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need s lift.

Clear away the clutter

Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school books, toys, paper etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. You husband will feel he has reaved a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too.

Prepare the Children

Take a few minutes to wash the children’s hand and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.

Minimize all noise

At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of washer, drier, dishwasher or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him. Greet him with warm smile  and be glad to see him.

Some don’ts

Don’t greet him with problems or complaints. Don’t complain if he is late for dinner. Count this as a minor compared with wat he might have gone through that day.

Make him comfortable

Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax-unwind.

Listen to him

You may have some things to tell him but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first

Make the evening his

Never complain if he does take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure, his need to come and relax.

The goal

Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.

Gh News Today
Gh News Todayhttps://ghnewstoday.com
Kwaku Opoku-Dame is the Chief Editor of Ghnewstoday.com, and he is based in Tema, Ghana. Kwaku holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Communication Studies (Journalism major) from the Ghana Institute of Journalism.
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